I only use unisex single stall bathrooms in public. At school, I go all the way to the emptiest floor (either the second or third) to use the bathroom, but still always use the female stall if there is a risk of anyone seeing and only use the male when the floor is completely empty.
The reason for this is because as far as the school is concerned, I am a female and there was this story about how someone was expelled for using the ‘wrong bathroom’ and I cannot take the risk at all.
When I start to really really pass, I’m going to speak to my guidance councilor to see what I can do about this, but for now its running up and down the stairs every time I need to take a piss.
In public, I almost NEVER use the bathroom. Part of me uses it to get revenge on my mother who has instilled the fear of even considering using the men’s room into me in fear of someone noticing me. I have UTI and I have told her time and time again, I’d rather suffer through another fit of fevers and pain than go into the girls room.
I’m a very petty person that way.